That is a point. I'll think on that. I always felt I couldn't tell her to do anything, she's stubborn and will dig in her heels and do the opposite if pushed to hard. I always felt like I was giving in but perhaps I am controlling in some ways and never realized it.
M-44 W-44 Sons- 11&14 Married- 18 Together- 27 Separation mentioned- 9-29-14 Still together, but not "together" "if you feel rotten and forgotten, remember there'll be better days."