Okay now from that list, if we asked your W what issues she had with you, what would she say? Would she say that you were controlling? I see some tendency of that, especially in the money side of things. You "gave" her money if there was any extra kind of like a parent giving a child allowance.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.