jim0987 #4 - strengthening my inner cat

[jim0987]

Practicing my new Boundaries question.

So very tense with W this evening from the moment she walked in - she is really cross about something and I'm feeling pretty resentful about the whole situation. (Affair, her attitude, etc.)

Anyways while I was giving the kids their bath I went to tell D3 'one time minute' but W cut right accross me. I said 'I know you're trying to help but I'd appreciate it if you didn't talk accross me'

My tone was terse and I didn't look at her as I was busy dressing S1.

So boundary? Or stroppy? What did I do wrong/right?

Thanks in advance