And for what its worth I think it was a nice text from him on your anniversary. Mine came and went with no contact from H whatsoever.
A few months ago I did sent H a text to say I was sorry things had gone this far between us and that I did not expect things to turn out this way. I shouldn't have sent it, but was feeling very emotional after a talk about finances. He never responded. I was gutted. It would have been a perfect opportunity for him to wish me well, or say sorry, anything.
So I would have been delighted with some sort of acknowledgement on our anniversary after 22 years of marriage.
Take care
Me - 44 Husband - 47 D20, S18 BD - Aug 2013 Moved out - Jan 2014 OW discovered Jan 2014