That sounds really positive Claire, I'm glad.

And for what its worth I think it was a nice text from him on your anniversary. Mine came and went with no contact from H whatsoever.

A few months ago I did sent H a text to say I was sorry things had gone this far between us and that I did not expect things to turn out this way. I shouldn't have sent it, but was feeling very emotional after a talk about finances. He never responded. I was gutted. It would have been a perfect opportunity for him to wish me well, or say sorry, anything.

So I would have been delighted with some sort of acknowledgement on our anniversary after 22 years of marriage.

Take care


Me - 44 Husband - 47
D20, S18
BD - Aug 2013
Moved out - Jan 2014
OW discovered Jan 2014