Read and and incorporate what you can. It's not a one-shot deal. It's a posture you take to help wake them up.
OK, just seems like a really simple version of Sandi's 37 rules. I was doing that already, or at least thought I was.
Me 47 - W 35 M 9 - T 10 2 Daughters - 7 & 9 Discovery of EA- 8/4/14 S - 8/5/15 D mentioned - 9/11/14 R & Piecing - 3/17/15 Regard one another as more important than yourselves. - Philippians 2:3