To me, this goes to show our role in the separation. I just read 25yearsmlc repeating elsewhere that the OP is a symptom, not a cause. It pains me to admit it because I know he actively pursued my W. But then again, I had many things on my side (history, kids, marriage, inertia...) and my R should have been impenetrable. Maybe not perfect, as it's not possible, but impossible to break from the outside. I feel like I've let my W go dry emotionally and when she found some water, how could she resist?
M39 D6 D3 (at S) S 2014-09 D 2016-09
"You can't start a fire sitting around, crying over a broken heart" - Bruce Springsteen.
