Always remember, you are the one that will determine whether you want to reconcile or not, if the opportunity presents itself. Sure, the MLCer may wake up, resolved his/her issues, and want to reconcile, but it's not their choice...it's yours. You are the one that will determine if you want to try again or not....the ultimate decision on this will be yours.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.