So I went ahead and did it.

"I wanted to thank you again for your help on Sunday. I can't tell you how much I appreciate it. You're always willing to help friends in need and it's one of your very best qualities. It's very selfless and helpful.

Thanks again. :)"


His response: "Thank you. smile Anytime."


ME: 38
BF: 40
T: 10y, no kids, no M (by choice)
BD: 7/14/14, BF admits to PA, wants out, lies about new R.
10/1/14: I move out, BF lies about move in with OW
12/4/14: OW confronted, reveals all the lies