Thanks LFW. I've missed your input. I agree that this next period is for the best. I get the impression that she expected the feelings and attraction to come back naturally and I understand that it doesn't work that way. She hasn't had a chance to 'miss' me and for whatever reason, she has decided against trying while we've been living together. It is frustrating but knowledge is power and I'm OK with the whole situation. I understand that it has to come from her and I still feel confident that things will work out one day, hopefully sooner rather than later.


Me: 31, W: 29
T: 4 M: 2
Kids: 3 (SS: 7, SD: 4, D: 3)
Separated, still living together: Nov 2013
Separate bedrooms: Feb 2014
W working away; kids with me: Nov 2014