Thank you Wonka and MrBond. I am not doing this for any reaction from the W. I am doing this for me, the time has come for me. Yes, I am taking into account the new woman and how unfair it is to her, to be dating someone who is still separated after 2 years of no contact with the W. I am not doing it for the new woman, but I have empathy for how she must feel. Mouth will be zipped Wonka, just checking before I do anything. See something I have learnt from my past :-)
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.