Need help. Jefe's confused pt 4

[Hope414]

I'm sorry Jefe, I was unclear in my messaging.

I was not telling you how should have responded in your last text messages.

I was using your text messages as examples on how to test the waters to determine if you wife is trying to engage in conversation.

In other words: If the text message indicates conversation respond with conversation.

Regarding the shoulder rubbing issue--Don't ever breach her personal space. This is just like dating. Look but do not touch unless given permission.