He may or may not figure it out.

At this point, I wouldn't sweat it. Premature at best.
You can communicate a lot non-verbally.

Trust me, he knows how you feel about OW.

It's a small step; him solving his own issues with the kids, and actually showing some concern for your cute little ears, but it's a baby step.


However, since he's not really trying to get close, he's not crossing a boundary. IF he does, then it's time to say: "Back off until OW is gone. Then we can talk about it."

Nice as pie, of course.

Right now you're just being a cool chick with no expectations.

---(G)GGG


Me 54 Him 63
M 23 T 29
0 Kids
Funny Farm of Rescues
12/12 OW--
5/13 ILYBINILWY: A denied
9/13 Proof OW: ENDED
2/14 Got D papers on my BD
I kicked him out for my sanity
9/14 He wants to "talk"?