H's MLC #5

[mleigh4]

2BHappy. I feel your pain, I am in the exact same place. I also try to force a decision, but if they are not ready to make it, what do we do? My H says the same things as yours, but also throws in that I don't have to wait to move on, that I can do whatever I want. I just laugh. Sure, move on while I am still married and live with my H? That should go over well on a date, right? But in my heart, I just want H, and I can guess you feel the same.

I wish I had some advise, but I am just as frustrated and tired of this as you and don't know what to do. We may not have any choice but to wait it out or decide if it has been enough. The hard part is wondering if we give up and make the decision for them, will we always wonder, if only I had given it a little more time? What are we rushing to move on to? With H being confused and not sure, that just always leaves that glimmer of hope.....