We are trying to heal our M, and I am trying to help her heal and cope with all that is coming back to her. I must admit, however, that it is exhausting -- any thoughts on how to support someone through this would be appreciated. Especially when working on the R.
Don't let it become a part of your life...for long. Seriously. At some point she will have to let it go. Period.
Easier said than done, but absolutely 100% mandatory. I don't know how far I'd go into a reconciliation if I had any doubts about her resolution and healing b/c I fear you will get sucked into some type of crappy negative scenario and it's NOT your job to heal her.
Remember that. It's not your job to heal (fix) her. That is her job.
Last edited by 25yearsmlc; 11/03/1411:32 PM.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
