more good happenings..

Find the more I act independent, on my own schedule and hot, fun, give H space, let him come to me- the more he draws in closer to me. Really good steps yesterday.

Since I moved in, I've been in and out, doing my own thing. When I came home last night, H was happy to see me- had a bunch of stuff to show me in his studio! Then, H has started coming to "my" bed, for cuddling cats and me too. It's obvious he missed us! He did admit in words a couple weeks back that he had been lonely at night, even.. Think I owe the cats for helping since they immediately chose "my" bed over his to sleep and lounge in, lol. H jumps in the bed and hints for a massage. Then cuddles and ML , and H acted even warmer emotionally than previous times. This is big step, showing his intimate behaviors/mannerisms to me again. Loved my massage, acting loving toward me. Afterwards, he calls me hon! (just like he used to, this is HUGE). H talking baby talk to the cat(he loves the cat SO much), and teasing me, ganging up on me with cat- even said "nope, I won't ever get favored by cat again(future reference- H is speaking of us all together!) Lots of flirty stuff from him. Still sleeps in "his" bed at night, but honestly I don't think that will last too long. Took him 1 day after I moved in to come lounge in "my" bed I left up all H's decorations in "my" room, too(he didnt clear it out)- so he feels super comfortable coming in there. Not to mention cats prefer "my" room! Told me everything he's doing today down to the last detail!

Master the self-fulfilling prophecy.. Act 'as if' it's going to happen and make it be!!