When they have meltdowns on Fridays because they hate having to pack, and they have to leave their toys for the weekend to go spend time with him, and he doesn't try to help them pack things to keep at his house that would make them more comfortable, that's his consequence falling on me (ruining my last hour with them).
Maybell, did you say previously that your H wouldn't allow the kids to keep things at his place? I informed my H yesterday that I intended to buy D12 extra school uniforms and her favorite type of lunchbox containers to stock up at his house. My intention is to buy extra personal items, socks, undies, toothpaste, hairbrush, etc, to keep at his place, as well as some snacks that she likes to take to school. Would your H allow this if you did it?
All that will, of course, be charged to the cc that comes addressed to MR. RPP.
