Maybell. I think all people learn at different times. I myself was not really involved with the kids. If fact when W said that this was not working and she wanted out. I had 1 foot out the door leaving kids with W. I don't know what exactly came over me but just then I realized what is really important to me what is the kids. The last 3 months while dealing with this R stuff has been hard. It has also been some of the best times of my life. Playing and connecting with the kids and seeing the smiles on their faces when they wake up and see you.

This has come with consequences for me though as the W thinks I am trying to compete for their love. I know this as she has told me. So I don't think you can make him see what he needs to do. But I hope one day he realizes it before he misses to much. As I missed close to 5 years burring myself in work before realizing what is really important. Hope this helps


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