moving with confidence to success!

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Very good night moving in w. H. H acting warm, very considerate and interested in me. He smiled a ton! Think I did an A+ job of mirroring closeness, acting independent, giving tons of space etc. And H offered all kinds of things to me. Sharing drinks, magazines, and letting me play all three of his guitars! (unprecedented stuff on his part) He had so much stuff to show me. Started playing Pride and Joy for me, another song he hasn't played in years and in the past had been kind of one of our "songs".... He let me play electric guitar in his studio, and when he was working, he'd call me in to show me stuff or see cat cute a bunch of times(in the past, he would like to be in his "cave" in studio mostly) I was downstairs practicing guitar and he kept coming out of his studio to show me/tell me stuff! Also, was thinking of me and had a table in living room just for me to use for my art. Then, he had cleaned up the room for my bed, etc and he had left a picture of the two of us, really cute pic of us holding each other- from when we were dating like 9 yrs ago! Just sitting on "my" bed. Good sign he thought to save it and leave it on my bed for me to find?! I played it cool, and didn't mention it...just secretly smiled! To top off the night, the cats both slept with me in my new bed, purring(good kitties! how is H going to resist joining us. )

H is still saying "my bed/your bed" and "my room/your room" but at the same time "our bookshelf, our sofa"

It's really paying off that I am respecting his boundaries and being considerate and appreciative too. And bonding through music/guitar has been so huge. Being laid back, acting fun, friendly , smiling...fitting in with bachelor mode myself- I think dishes suck, too! It's like I have a brand new, exciting feel for life and towards H, feel like I'm 20 when we first met all over again, and I can tell the same is coming forth in him. This S has really done wonders for us in terms of rediscovering each other, seeing each other in an exciting new way- sparks! I lost count of how many times he smiled at me last night!