Ok, thank you, Labug, I hear you.

Does that mean I take the consequences of this for my kids the same way I'm taking the consequences of all the rest of it? That their pain is in my sandbox but the solution to the problem (as I see it) is not?

We were married sixteen years. That's sixteen years of intertwining skills and responsibilities. It's hard to know where one stops and the other starts.

I know you understand that.

Me42, H40
D12, S8, S7
A revealed: 7/13
Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15

She believed she could, so she did.