Yes, MLC took some of this from him, but this experience has pointed out a lot of things to me about our previous R that I was unaware of, mostly because he is very manipulative and hid things from me.
Sometimes, in this process, we outgrow our spouses. Or at least, take off our rose-colored glasses.
Several years past my divorce, and I am STILL figuring out things that were probably lies during my marriage and I was oblivious to them.
