Some days i feel like throwing in the towel . I wonder if she came to me today and said she wanted to work on us I would say yes. But how can i come to grips with the fact she has had sex with another man all this time . How can i kiss this woman ever again ? This question must come up in many minds on this forum . Just wondering has anyone have suggestions on how to get over the fact that their spouse has been sexually intimate with another person , likely with out the use of condoms ? Is this something an individual must conquer


Me 45 W 45
Son 16 Son 14
Married 23 together 27
W threatened sep several times
W still at home
A discovered Mar 17 2014
A ended DEC 2 ( skeptical )