I'm sorry but good googly! I know some things come naturally to others whereas some have to work harder to be more x. However, it is NOT your fault as to how your h treats his own children. Is he a natural caregiver/nurturer/father figure? Perhaps not. However, it's not your job to *make* him anything. Could you be supportive? Sure. However, you can't change the past.
He's a big boy. If he truly thinks it's important, IMHO he will work on his R with the kids. Just my 2 cents.
3 kids BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. ) Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style D final 9-9-14 "Some people are born on 3rd base and go through life thinking they hit a triple." Barry Switzer
