Updates.... Really good, chill, happy visit tonight! H calls tonight lvs msg saying he is already putting my bed up in room for me and I should come over. I call him back later and he and friend are setting bed up, then I bring over a car load of stuff to start moving in.
H helps me unload some stuff and I scored lots of points! At first I said I could only stay for a bit, then H kept acting like he wanted to hang out, and I stayed for 2 hrs.. Told him I'm traveling light nowadays(have sold or given away a lot of my stuff), and that I like to be efficient, so I am packing tight and making less trips. He was pretty impressed and pleased about that! He wanted to put up his favorite painting of mine too. Then, we watched a movie, some tv and played with the cats after. Laughed a lot about stupid tv shows. One show was these bachelor guys saying women sucked. H teased me with a smile about "girls being icky" after that, like both male cat and him agreed. H loves the cats SO much, acting like they are his babies. Cradling the cat in his arms like a baby, etc. The softness in him has been tapped! Showing me cute tricks him and cat are doing, etc. H tried to get me to pet cats stomach and get attacked. Me and female cat said "the guys were gonna have to try harder than that to get us". H grinned huge and said "just wait we'll get you when you least expect it" Then he made the cat playfully touch my nose. Total old H flirty mode. Does not do this with anyone else but me, kind of thing. Asked H where he wanted me to put stuff, etc. He really appreciated that! Tells me everything he's doing between now and tomorrow before I see him again. I'm going back tomorrow afternoon to move more(hopefully most of my stuff) in!! He told me to just show up, no need to call.. When I left, it was an extended goodbye again- "catch you later, see you tomorrow, good night, night!"
Master the self-fulfilling prophecy.. Act 'as if' it's going to happen and make it be!!
