I've been wondering if I fostered this distance between him and them. SAHM, breastfed all three kids for the prescribed year, meticulous in trying to be a great, careful mom. He traveled so, so much. Did I fail to give him the space he needed to be a great dad? I'm sure I did to a degree... But also I had to beg him to give me breaks, to get up with them at the times we agreed he'd be in charge. He never took them to the park or even really outside. Is this my fault? Or, at least partly? Should I have tried harder to help him know how to engage with them?


Me42, H40
D12, S8, S7
A revealed: 7/13
Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15

She believed she could, so she did.