Thanks Theoden. Luckily I did see a L back in May when PA was confirmed. I L on retainer and have been holding paperwork for 6 more months trying to feel things out. The rabbit whole just seems to keep going though.

Most should be pretty simple. W just wants as much visitation as possible. A little snooping turned up that she has been trying to figure out CS costs recently to see what she is in for as she has been trying to get things together to file anyways. L thinks things will turn out better for me taking the initiative here too. That won't be my reason for proceeding but good to know.

I agree about taking a hard line. I am having some difficulty identifying what a hard line should be. I have been thinking discussion on S needs should be done via email. I'm tired of getting into arguments about what she wants me to do with S. And outside of the visitation schedule, no contact for now. I will ignore texts that don't merit an answer. Any thoughts on how to approach the boundaries at this point?


M: 43 W: 43
Married 6 yrs.
T: 7 yrs.
Son 20, 18, 17, 15 yrs. (w/ Autism), 12, 10