I don't WANT to have to be the one to decide/fix/plan/initiate. It drives me nuts. I would like to do exactly half! I don't want to be the "I don't know, whatever YOU want, darling.. I have no will of my own..." type either.
Interestingly my xh's women are the passively controlling type - if you know what I mean. Whereas I really want a consultative relationship, where both partners have a real say.
I own and operate my own chainsaw, but I also like silk underwear and high heeled shoes!!
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I do not need, nor do I want passive, covert-aggressive, Mr. (Pretend) Nice Guy.
I am so with you on that one too.
I have opinions, but I like to hear the opinions of others - my friends do not have to agree with me!!
