Ok, mozza,

I see there is an OM (you might want to add that to your signature), and you keep feeling like you want to talk about your pain and get some clarity during a lunch...?

I would avoid that like the plague.

You are nowhere near being able to have that conversation yet and remain fully in control of your emotions. It's too fresh and since you used the words "my pain" it's clear that this would be a bad idea.

No R talks. Not for quite a while, OK?

So she has OM and you're worried about her being pissed that you don't jump when she wants to have lunch?

I don't think so....


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Me 54 Him 63
M 23 T 29
0 Kids
Funny Farm of Rescues
12/12 OW--
5/13 ILYBINILWY: A denied
9/13 Proof OW: ENDED
2/14 Got D papers on my BD
I kicked him out for my sanity
9/14 He wants to "talk"?