Don't take things too hard. It is difficult to emotionally take the blows but there are so many + in your last interaction. Think of how often those + came out and you only experience a few - so all in all, more +. Focus on that stuff.
You know better than anyone that the - will still come out, especially when they are scared. It is a little different for you because of this whole geographic thing but you can't deny all the stuff that is happening with you.
I can't help but go back to his maturity. He doesn't seem to me to be the kind of person that thinks things through clearly before making a decision. He also seems to do things at the last minute with little planning.
Lets add those two ingredients up and I have a strong intuition that once (or most likely if) there is a decision to move he will want you to come with him, at the very least because he needs you and the very most because he will realize he loves you and wants you.
You are very wise now and know better than to talk about your needs (your tv). Rather just act as if you are fine with how everything turns out, whichever way that is and don't mention your needs. It doesn't surprise me he threw out that dagger. Knowing you, your R talk will result in ML. Go you, we are all pulling for you.
