Bea,
I'm right there w/you. I heard and nodded at everything you posted. My xh did me a huge favor and the gift he gave me was getting my old self back and I truly love being on my own.

I've dated a few men, but in my neck of the woods, all they want is a mother, i.e., someone to cook, clean and take care of them. I raised one and I'm not about to do so again. LOL!


Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.