Sometimes you need someone around who thinks along nice clean lines!
Clearly, that's not me!
I'd have them creating a web of strings circling the globe in which Maybells' H might become entangled, eventually getting so wound up that he'd have no choice but to come home and straighten up.
*sigh*
If I can make it complicated, I will! Count on it.
That's sad about the artwork though. Probably on some level he doesn't want to be reminded about how his kids are missing him.
Which is why asking him to do anything about this is likely to backfire...
What makes you think they want to talk to him every night? Since sometimes they decline to speak to him, etc.
I like Ahoy's idea. Let them call HIM. And don't prompt them to do this, that's pressure too. If it comes up that they want to talk to him, then call him there and then.
The step back and see what happens.
Remember, this is a guy with a lot of guilt he wants to forget.
PS: You might feel like you don't care either way about him being your H again, but I'll bet my bottom dollar that's just today.
Wait, and the weather will change.... It's too detached, too quickly to be "final", ya know? But I hear you. Today I couldn't care less, either!
Tomorrow? Well, we'll see.
---(G)GGG
Me 54 Him 63 M 23 T 29 0 Kids Funny Farm of Rescues 12/12 OW-- 5/13 ILYBINILWY: A denied 9/13 Proof OW: ENDED 2/14 Got D papers on my BD I kicked him out for my sanity 9/14 He wants to "talk"?
