No "dating" for me either, even "platonically". I know I'm really vulnerable and it's true, anyone who is decent and kind and interested in me seems way better than H by comparison. I also would never want to drag anyone through whatever is coming next. I am really not "free". Not even close.
I AM however, spending a lot of time in groups where there are nice men I could date one day. Everyone now knows I am not "single" and I am not "dating". (I am taking names, but on the down-low. )
The men who have expressed an interest in getting to know me better respect me for my integrity and my choice to remain faithful while my husband is going through this crisis.
Interestingly, these are the kind of men who would WANT that quality in a partner, so they are impressed and respectful. And the most they've said is: "Please let me be among the first to know if and when you decide to date!"
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Me 54 Him 63 M 23 T 29 0 Kids Funny Farm of Rescues 12/12 OW-- 5/13 ILYBINILWY: A denied 9/13 Proof OW: ENDED 2/14 Got D papers on my BD I kicked him out for my sanity 9/14 He wants to "talk"?
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