Thanks, Toots. So have you ceased caring about the outcome?
I'm absolutely certain I will be okay. I mean, I've been without my wayward wife for more than five months now, and I'm not even close to death. My problem is that I still deeply desire reconciliation, and it causes me to have terrible emotional instability. I read the other day that in most if not all of the examples of reconciliation on these boards, the LBS had, to paraphrase, "quit giving a damn." Perhaps that is what I need to do. I guess it is best, because then my wayward wife will have to win me back, which is really what needs to happen, anyway.
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My problem is that I still deeply desire reconciliation, and it causes me to have terrible emotional instability. I read the other day that in most if not all of the examples of reconciliation on these boards, the LBS had, to paraphrase, "quit giving a damn." Perhaps that is what I need to do. I guess it is best, because then my wayward wife will have to win me back, which is really what needs to happen, anyway.
