Originally Posted By: Maybell
I want to ask my H to start calling the kids every day, even if it's only two minutes to tell them he loves them. I will see him briefly tonight. Is it better to send him a one- line email asking for this today before I see him or to ask him in person when he drops them off?

I'm so tired of my boys being so miserable. I wish I knew how my daughter feels but it doesn't bode well for her future relationships with guys.

I'm tired of this. I'd like to be with someone who cares about us. Just to be loved and have a place to rest.


Good Morning! smile

Do the kids ask you why he doesn't call? Do they call him?

Have you asked him why he stopped calling? I'd open a conversation with an information-seeking question. "What gives, buddy?" (maybe no that exactly but ...

About the 25 excerpt, it's my view that after reconciling we will always be working on repairing the marriage. It's not for sissies either. wink


Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss