I also do this for my S, except I change the pattern and blow a kiss. I do this every day I work. In regards to detachment, should I stop doing this for my S? I know she's asleep, so she doesn't hear it (at least consciously),
Okabe, I'm not sure it matters. If she doesn't know it, then it's not for her anyway. I also get up before H on all school/work days, he's still asleep when I get up. Up until recently, I kissed him on the shoulder every day before I got out of bed. I stopped recently because that's where I was. He didn't know either way.
