A funny thought occurred to me this morning as I got ready for work. In regards to detachment what does one do? I leave for work between 3:30 and 4:00 in the morning when everyone is still asleep. As a parting ritual I always go to my boys doors, tell them I love them, wish them a good day, and that I'll see them later. I also do this for my S, except I change the pattern and blow a kiss. I do this every day I work. In regards to detachment, should I stop doing this for my S? I know she's asleep, so she doesn't hear it (at least consciously), but as I understand detachment it is more for me creating my own emotional/ mental boundaries and perhaps I should stop for myself. Or does it matter either way? Just a thought.
M-44 W-44 Sons- 11&14 Married- 18 Together- 27 Separation mentioned- 9-29-14 Still together, but not "together" "if you feel rotten and forgotten, remember there'll be better days."
