Bright, It's okay to be upset and/or angry, but like Bea said, it is their choice to be friends to your h. We can't control how others feel and what they do.
What I am going to suggest is that you not discuss as much of your business w/them. I still think that info is being carried back and forth by them to the two of you. Limit the discussions about your h when you are in contact w/them. Keep your conversations on your interests, hobbies, son and work.
They've been friends to both of you and I would hate for you to cut them out of your life if you still enjoy their company. Bea's posting is very much spot on.
BTW, congratulations on winning a laptop. Sounds like you had a busy Halloween. I hope you got some rest yesterday.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
