Mozza... I seems to me you're very good at DB-ing even though you don't feel that way inside.

Is it realistic to completely detach and never look to see if the W is noticing your changes? And how do you do that without seeming cold?

It seems it's all about releasing the resentment.

Me: 44
W: 45
S: 11
Married: 15
Together: 18
BD: 9/29/2014
OM discovered: 10/16/2014
I left her behind: 12/14/2014