Thanks for bringing me back, Renew! Yeh, I should see right through the "all business" phone call. Making the contact and inviting the other cat in itself is a good step. H isn't a huge phone person. Maybe the only reason he was talking to me on the phone more before is b/c he was lonely and missed me, and didn't know when he'd hear from me otherwise since I was majorly DBing. Now he knows I'm coming back, he's back to his old self more? Back when things were great between us, H wouldn't necessarily talk tons to me, I guess. I do want this R to be better, though- I'll have to keep up with DB strong! Was going to be heading to his practice later on, couldve been his mind was more on that. I really have to keep my "detachment" going through this new level I'm at. Way too easy to feel reactive again.
Master the self-fulfilling prophecy.. Act 'as if' it's going to happen and make it be!!