Ok, so D7 has an eye appt. tomorrow. I just asked her if I could help with that. She says: I don't know, thanks, I'm falling asleep.

D can be final 90 days after petition. So that's Mid December. Ironically, on our wedding anniversary.

Btw - shes says she does not have an anger problem, that she has a (insert my name) problem. She actually said this to me earlier today. A few weeks ago I asked if she was getting to talk to her therapist about her anger issues (I know, I'm the last person that should have said that to her in that way). But - she still remembers that and brings it up occasionally.

Another question - this approach seems to be converse from the LRT in the DR book. I see myself being more available to help and being less elusive with what we did today. Honestly I like it, but it's going to be a switch from what I was doing before (not that it was working very well except to help me emotionally).

Me:40
W:39
M:Dec 95
Split: Jul 14
W Filed: 9/16/14
Several Children
(including adopted)