I'm sure your anniversary makes you feel tender. I'm sorry for that.
Many of us are aware of affairs and we're still here. Does it matter what others think of me?
I put my kids to bed after a rollicking night with four of their close friends, and S6 started crying because he misses his dad. I'd rather have his good opinion for exhausting all my efforts at preventing a divorce than anyone else's good opinion for giving my H the boot.
You seem so angry to be standing for your marriage. Why is that? What if you accepted that is your position at the moment and examine the reasons you are so angry to be making this choice for yourself?
Do you feel pressured to stay the course by others on the board because you worry what we'll think if you decide you're done?
Me42, H40 D12, S8, S7 A revealed: 7/13 Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15
