I can appreciate that point of view Barry. I hate the idea of filing too but I don't feel respected and can barely respect myself now after all she has done and the continuous lies for 2 years now. I don't think it will even phase her but I can't trust her not to make trouble for S and I future. I will see lawyer on Tuesday I hope and if I can just get custody without filing I would but I think it will require filing.

As always thanks for the input and encouragement.

M: 43 W: 43
Married 6 yrs.
T: 7 yrs.
Son 20, 18, 17, 15 yrs. (w/ Autism), 12, 10