Hey Bright! I understand your frustrations with your friends. Part of me feels that with xh's family. I realize they are family, but so are my kids. Instead of being so accepting of hww and his choices, cant they say they are sad they have hurt my kids and wont be so welcoming? They haven't reached out to my kids once. Except for his one brother, his parents nor any other siblings (xh is on of seven), not one person has reached out once in the past year to see how they are doing. Not even the one who lives 2 doors down.
I is hurtful to think that others would be so welcoming to someone who has hurt their family. In your case, your friends. I get it, Bright.
I am not sure what to tell you. I think it depends on how you really feel and where you see your life headed. Is their friendship that important to you? Or do you see being "friends" from a distance, or do you see your future in a totally different direction?
I like seeing you making progress and feeling ready to make some changes. That's exciting stuff! Good for you!
