These friends have put themselves right into the thick of things between you and your H.
When I discovered a month ago that a former best friend of mine had spent time living and partying with Smokey and his OW...it really blew me away. I felt punched in the stomach.
I can't tell you what to do in respect to your friendship. But, I will say that I think it's really healthy that you're feeling angry with them. They have pushed your buttons and enabled your H for a long time.
They've been a big strand in this really entangled situation with your H. I can see how they have made it more difficult for you to move forward. I can't imagine getting inside information regularly about Smokey. I think it would break me, at this point. Even now, hearing about the former best friend really cut deep.
For me, it's easier for me to keep his life a safe distance from mine.
What do YOU think? This isn't your first day at the rodeo, Bright. Trust yourself. You are a different woman than when you started on these boards. Whether you realize it or not.
Much love to you,
Heather
"You know, it's times like these when I realize what a superhero I am." Tony Stark/Iron Man
“Focus on what you can do, then do it with all your heart.” Lois Wilson
