Call H this morning- got VM, but H calls back like 30 seconds later. This is officially the fastest time he's returned a call yet! He woke up to get my call, "oh yes wants me to come over" with cat scratching post and pencils before I go to work..
I get there, H answers door in his underwear(ok comfort level is 100% now! He has not done this since our S, and usually puts on pants for his best friends even....Actually it is also huge he wants me coming over waking him up first thing in the morning- H usually only sees his friends at night. His guard keeps coming down more and more! Wants me to stop in and stay a little(even though I'm on my way to work..) H is excited to show me everything he's set up for the cat since last night and how the cat is doing his cute tricks with H again.. (H is like a puppy dog- so excited about having his cat back) H set up steps so cat can get in his bunk bed, but says "not sure bunk bed will work for the cat" H made a special cat bed in his studio with extra blankets around the side(Cats were not allowed in H's studio before). H and cat had special dinner together-spoiling him just like old times... Once again comments about how "cat feels home" "H's buddy" Cat was doing all kinds of cute sprawls and noises he hasn't done in months that only H can bring out of him... (Backstory here- H has visited the cats only 2 times in 5 months- he felt it would be too emotional/hard for him, since I would be keeping cats and not him- so this is a major step back towards our "family" Also, H used to joke about how the cat was his best buddy, no one else(like a silly snub to me and the other girl cat- He is doing all this again...) Oh, and I can feel free to bring the other cat over anytime soon now! (heehe!) This whole S, H has been really reserved responding to my comments about cats- not visiting, acting like he's "detached"-- It's like the dam just broke and all the water is rushing out!!!
So comfort level is increasing majorly- all these signs of being so close... H admitting how much he's been lonely and missed the cat. Acting like my H more and more- Ok, I'm sending that alien ship back into space!
Will post to people soon, sorry been off the boards with all my developments!
Master the self-fulfilling prophecy.. Act 'as if' it's going to happen and make it be!!
