Glad it's helpful. I really need to read these stories to keep the faith. Tomorrow will be the 2-month anniversary of the ILYBINILWY and my W moved out 17 days later. We're barely in touch -- she emails more or less daily some random stuff about the kids and I reply briefly. I confirmed the OM two days ago. She must be deep in love or at least having lots of fun. She gets tons of support (logistics: colleagues and OM, endless money: parents) meaning that she has a long time to go before she faces reality, if ever. Even if we're in good terms and much better than some stories with restraining orders and the likes, there are days when I simply don't know how this can be resolved. Thankfully, I'm fairly good at GALing.
