Quote: He wants a one nighter? Try different ways to become his one night stand. Call him up and tell him you will be at such and such bar and that he better get there if he wants to make sure you go home with him...then be there talking to guys and let him pick you up!!! Maybe even do this on a night that one of your gf's is out of town...ask her if you can use her place for a quickie with your h...then take him back there!
You are inventive. You will come up with ways to tease him and keep him interested. Let him chase. I know how scary this must be for you. But you got the stuff gal!
Just make sure that your settling in together doesn't feel too much like the same old thing. You worked so hard on changing yourself. Keep a hold on that and get to know INDEPENDENT self even better.