I set up the empty guest bedroom (H took the guest bed) to be the kids' games & reading room. Put the TV from my bedroom in there (I never used it and it's bad feng shui to have a TV in the bedroom) in there and set up the xBox for the kids, adding Netflix all by myself -- these used to be H's responsibilities, but I am capable!! Now I have a space to send the kids to play or watch a movie when I have friends over, and S8 has a place to go and read quietly by himself when he needs alone time (boys share a room). I am so proud of myself!!! It looks great.

Pasting Mozza's success stories here:

Crimson - ?
Labug - March 2011 to December 2013
Train - reconciled in 2014
HopefulStill - reconciled in 2012
Starsky309 - reconciled after dated another woman
minkerman - Reconciled in 2008 http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2310037&page=1
FaithfulH - Reconciled in 2007 http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2503128#Post2503128
sandi2 - ?
25yearsmlc - 2005 to August 2008 (signature)

(also Thornton and T0324; butterflymom & favoriteweirdo?)

Last edited by Maybell; 11/02/14 05:43 PM.

Me42, H40
D12, S8, S7
A revealed: 7/13
Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15

She believed she could, so she did.