Don't take this the wrong way, but since she has experienced pregnancy and abortion from a previous A, why on earth wouldn't she have her tubes tied? She obviously does not learn from her mistakes. It would seem she would get a little smarter if she's going to sleep with other men.
I don't how you deal with this. I really don't. You deserve better.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
