Wenikitiki...Thank you for a response! I have read the rules several times but still find this whole process to be mentally draining. I don't even want a divorce and not only did I file for it but now it just seems to be driven by retaliation from both sides. I just want to tell my H I can't do this anymore! And my H and the OW have each other for support and I feel so alone in this process!
I have been trying to GAL spending much more time with my family and at the gym. I will be joining a new kind of gym that's totally out of my comfort zone, but maybe just what I need!
My son is a priority for me and really right now while my H and his family are sending so many mixed messages, by involving ow in his life and buying him expensive stuff. I feel like I once again I'm on my own with making sure he is shown how to live an honest life without bribing , cheating or manipulation!
I have been trying to read more posts and it's sad to see so many people struggling with a lot of the same type of pain, but encouraging as well to know there can be a light at the end of the tunnel! Thank you again for your response!
M:37 H: 38 Married 16/ T20 Son: 16 Caught cheating with HW (also my good friend) 8/20/14 Papers delivered: 9/4/14
Thank you again for your response!
