Hello Dev,

Was just reading all of your sitch. I've learned so much from your words... thank you for sharing your story.

I'm a newbie here... a month into my sitch with a live in WAW having a long distance text/phone EA (discovered 2 weeks ago).

She also pushes for MC (to be "kinder" to each other)... but says she doesn't know if she wants to work towards an R.

Other times she says she does not want to.

Is your W wanting co-parenting or R MC?

Would it move you if she wanted R MC?


Me: 44
W: 45
S: 11
Married: 15
Together: 18
BD: 9/29/2014
OM discovered: 10/16/2014
I left her behind: 12/14/2014